If any of the following signs of disinterest are in your relationship, I’d take a parachute and jump because all 30 of these either on their own or joined up with others, make for an unhealthy partnering.
You They’d like you to ‘go with the flow’ even if there is nothing flowing, and to expect nothing beyond this. The relationship doesn’t progress – it goes in fits and starts, stalls, or goes into reverse. They tend to be around/call you up when they want something. They create drama in the hope that you’ll take the hint that they’re not interested and end it, so that they can be let off the hook 13.
Both men and women can be stalkers, and they come in every ethnicity, social type, and financial demographic.
Don’t fall prey to the myth that stalkers are weird, off-putting types — you know, potential serial killers and the like — because the most popular guy at work or the sweetest-seeming woman at the party can turn out to be very dangerous.
This is not the same as love or as a result of love.
A person who behaves in this way isn’t the type to have a balanced, respectful relationship, and may not even demonstrate their interest and leave you in no doubt about it.
When they set their sights on you, they have made a decision that y, at least for the moment.
Stalkers make and sustain strong eye contact in a way that can feel predatory.They and the relationship are not ambiguous, they’re not afraid to make plans and follow through on them, and more importantly, they treat you with care, trust, respect, and eventually When someone is not interested, it doesn’t mean that they won’t stick around for the fringe benefits, especially if it becomes apparent that regardless of how poorly they behave, that you will still be there.in their interest, in that they think you’re ‘nice’ or whatever but you’re not ‘The One’ or even in danger of becoming ‘The One’.Sometimes they flat out know this, but maybe because they’re not genuinely looking for a ‘The One relationship’ – possibly because they’re avoiding commitment – you will do to with.Some people overestimate their interest, then realise that they’re not as interested as they thought, and either think they might rediscover that interest again (probably not), or that again, you’re good to pass time with.You cannot be available for an available relationship if you’re making yourself available to someone who is unavailable. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.