Still, I've found a significantly higher-than-average number of poly folk on Fet Life, with a staggering number of local groups catering to those seeking multi-partnered relationships.
Yet still I regularly hear of friends, readers and clients connecting with others via Plenty of Fish for alternative partnerships, so obviously there's something else going on here that I've yet to figure out myself. Think I've missed a really important polyamorous dating site on this list?
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Have you ever wondered if an open relationship is for you?
Celebs like Will & Jada, MoNique & her husband, and even Brangelina have been open about dabbling in this lifestyle.
The thing is, POF offers few options for polyamorous singles, couples or groups to even sign up.
Also, with the new changes to POF's policies (deleting members that contact others for sex-only connections), it might be worth trying the other options on this list, first.
Walter asks: "My wife and I are wondering if you can suggest any dating sites for polyamorous couples, as she and I are looking for a woman to have a monogamous triad with.
I have looked and looked and have basically run my head into a brick wall with this. You've got a lot of company in your search for a single gal to join you and your wife for a long-term, monogamous partnership Walter, so while I'll share the websites that I know of to suit your needs, there are few guarantees you'll actually find what you're after. In many polyamorous communities, single women wanting to join a couple for an exclusive triad are often called "Unicorns", as they're both rare and beautiful to behold.
Having said that, I know of a significant number of partnerships with this kind of dynamic, so it's more than just a fantasy you're chasing.
I've ranked my top picks for polyamorous dating sites at the top, scaling down with reasons as to why they're a bit less desirable, in my opinion (although still on the list for a reason).
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