We’ve all got work commitments, family commitments, social obligations, errands and workouts. But, can we be honest with each other here for a minute?
There’s a really high chance that the “too busy” guy (or girl) isn’t any busier than the rest of us.
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Snowed under at work, non-stop at home – you have a thousand things on your To Do list with a higher priority than “Find The One”. Busyness is usually a cover for one of the following reasons why people aren’t looking for love.
But could you be using that as an excuse not to start dating asks match.com’s relationship expert Kate Taylor. Often, what feels like the worst time to find love is the time when you need it the most.
But, when I don’t care to see him, that’s when I go with the “too busy” route.
Not only am I saying, “I’m too busy,” but I’m really saying, “I don’t want to see you in the near future.
When your life is already hectic, is it really right to expect someone to accept the few crumbs of time and energy you have left? In real life, love and dating aren’t a romantic film – they’re people connecting with each other from within full and fulfilling lives.
In fact the best relationships occur when two busy people collide – they don’t get stuck in a rut, they move, share, grow and learn together.
We all get 24 hours a day, so mathematically speaking, we’re all working with the same allotment of time per day.
And we’re all used to using that 24 hours in a day in specific ways, which we would probably consider as “busy.”For example, I wake up, shower, go to work, go to the gym for an hour, make dinner, then either attend social commitments, reconnect with my couch or run errands. And just like that, I’ve spent my 24 hours staying rather busy without batting an eyelash.
Finally, I always urge men to filter women — selecting the ones they want and passing on the ones they’re not interested in — but for the busy man, this requires a bit more ruthlessness.
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